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Judge not, that ye be not judged

Chris­ti­ans (includ­ing mem­bers of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-​Day Saints), have a tend­ency to believe that some pop­u­lar opin­ions have a found­a­tion in scrip­tures, when these opin­ions are expressed in a way that sounds scrip­tural. So it is for the com­mon opin­ion that it is wrong to judge people in any way, and the fol­low­ing scrip­ture is often quoted:

«Judge not, that ye be not judged»

The prob­lem is, this scrip­ture doesn’t exist

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To judge or not to judge?

Today I have been approached by two dif­fer­ent people on the street, ask­ing me for 2 dol­lars. In both cases, I asked some ques­tions before mak­ing a decision. The first man was an Indi­gen­ous Aus­tralian in his 40s, the second was a young caucasian male in his early teens. I gave an apple to the first man, and 2 dol­lars to the second. I felt good about my first choice, but I felt stu­pid about my second. What is this all about?

Sources of self-​worth

Dur­ing the last few days I have been pon­der­ing about some­thing I want to change in my life. I’ve become keenly aware of an import­ant motiv­a­tional factor and source of self-​worth on which I’ve been rely­ing since I was very young. I refer to my desire to be seen in a good light by oth­ers, to receive praise, recog­ni­tion, adu­la­tion etc. I have been aware of this for a long time, but only now do I begin to see that this has no place in my life.

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Pizza and Movie night

In the past few months, I have spent a few even­ings with friends, and agreed to watch some movies which I later regret­ted hav­ing watched. I won’t offend anyone’s per­sonal tastes by giv­ing the names of these movies, let us just say that one was a sci-​fi botch-​up job, another was a cookie-​cut slap­stick com­edy, and the last was a teen­age alien fantasy flic. They were all ter­rible. What struck me, how­ever, was the pre­dict­ab­il­ity of the ele­ments of each movie. I couldn’t pre­dict each joke in the com­edy, or each turn of event in the sci-​fi film (almost, though...), but I could pre­dict what «typ­ical movie ele­ment» they would include. I com­pare these ele­ments to pizza ingredients.

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Birth

On Decem­ber 5th, 2009, at 9:36am (GMT +8), Joshua Joel Con­nault was born in King Edward Memorial Hos­pital, in Perth. We have been wait­ing for him for over 8 years, so his birth is espe­cially poignant to us. We have had a long time to pre­pare ourselves for him. I found, how­ever, that there was no way in the world I could have been pre­pared for the birth experience.

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Laying hold upon every good thing: why we got rid of TV

About 4 months ago we decided to stop watch­ing TV alto­gether. We eval­u­ated the types of «good» pro­grams that were avail­able on the TV, and real­ised that we could get equal or bet­ter qual­ity pro­grams from our own col­lec­tion or from the Inter­net, without being bom­barded with the thick treacle of world­li­ness that oozes from national TV.

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Never forget the gift

I have very power­ful memor­ies of my child­hood Christ­mases, mostly asso­ci­ated with smells, tra­di­tions, music, food, cold weather and, most of all, the anti­cip­a­tion of the presents to be opened on Christ­mas morning.

The bizarre thing is that I have vir­tu­ally no memor­ies of Christ­mas day once we had opened our presents. I do not remem­ber play­ing with toys. I can’t even remem­ber more than 2 or 3 presents I received. I don’t have pleas­ant memor­ies asso­ci­ated with them. In fact, in my memory, the «Christ­mas buzz» died once the presents were opened.

Why is that?

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Racial prejudice

Racists are unfor­tu­nate, ignor­ant souls. They fail to real­ize that every white Amer­ican has African blood flow­ing through his veins.

On comfort zones and happiness

Today I had a very enrich­ing dis­cus­sion with a good friend of mine, Penny Leach. We talked about cul­ture, social molds, addic­tion and hap­pi­ness. The cent­ral theme behind my com­ments was the conun­drum of pleasure-​seeking vs happiness-​seeking.

I am con­vinced that every­one seeks to be happy, but we all have trouble dis­cern­ing between pleas­ure and happiness.

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Learn every day

Life can get tedi­ous. We can get so caught up in the daily, weekly and monthly routines that we can for­get why we even do them. Without some­thing new and excit­ing com­ing to our atten­tion on a daily basis, we lose focus and interest, and we tend to become dis­sat­is­fied with ourselves or with our life.

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