Protected: Lessons from the past

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Protected: Life at 31 years of age

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Judge not, that ye be not judged

Chris­ti­ans (includ­ing mem­bers of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-​Day Saints), have a tend­ency to believe that some pop­u­lar opin­ions have a found­a­tion in scrip­tures, when these opin­ions are expressed in a way that sounds scrip­tural. So it is for the com­mon opin­ion that it is wrong to judge people in any way, and the fol­low­ing scrip­ture is often quoted:

«Judge not, that ye be not judged»

The prob­lem is, this scrip­ture doesn’t exist

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To judge or not to judge?

Today I have been approached by two dif­fer­ent people on the street, ask­ing me for 2 dol­lars. In both cases, I asked some ques­tions before mak­ing a decision. The first man was an Indi­gen­ous Aus­tralian in his 40s, the second was a young caucasian male in his early teens. I gave an apple to the first man, and 2 dol­lars to the second. I felt good about my first choice, but I felt stu­pid about my second. What is this all about?

Joshua

Joshua recupere tres bien a l’hopital. La plu­part de ses intra­veineuses et autres tubes et fils ont ete enleve pendant la journee aujourd’hui, il com­mence a reagir plus avec son entour­age, et il dev­rait sortir de l’hopital d’ici mer­credi si tout se passe bien. Nous vous tien­drons au cour­ant. Merci a tous pour vos pri­eres et vos messages [...]

Sources of self-​worth

Dur­ing the last few days I have been pon­der­ing about some­thing I want to change in my life. I’ve become keenly aware of an import­ant motiv­a­tional factor and source of self-​worth on which I’ve been rely­ing since I was very young. I refer to my desire to be seen in a good light by oth­ers, to receive praise, recog­ni­tion, adu­la­tion etc. I have been aware of this for a long time, but only now do I begin to see that this has no place in my life.

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Pizza and Movie night

In the past few months, I have spent a few even­ings with friends, and agreed to watch some movies which I later regret­ted hav­ing watched. I won’t offend anyone’s per­sonal tastes by giv­ing the names of these movies, let us just say that one was a sci-​fi botch-​up job, another was a cookie-​cut slap­stick com­edy, and the last was a teen­age alien fantasy flic. They were all ter­rible. What struck me, how­ever, was the pre­dict­ab­il­ity of the ele­ments of each movie. I couldn’t pre­dict each joke in the com­edy, or each turn of event in the sci-​fi film (almost, though...), but I could pre­dict what «typ­ical movie ele­ment» they would include. I com­pare these ele­ments to pizza ingredients.

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A true love story, part 2

A while ago I star­ted to write an auto­bi­o­graph­ical account of how Anne-​Marie and I met. I have kept post­pon­ing this next part, because it has become rather fuzzy in my mind over the years, and I didn’t keep very good journal records back then. Thank­fully, Anne-​Marie did, and last week I found an elec­tronic backup of all our Instant Mes­saging con­ver­sa­tions and email exchanges. So, using my memory and these resources, I will attempt to retrace these early events.

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Birth

On Decem­ber 5th, 2009, at 9:36am (GMT +8), Joshua Joel Con­nault was born in King Edward Memorial Hos­pital, in Perth. We have been wait­ing for him for over 8 years, so his birth is espe­cially poignant to us. We have had a long time to pre­pare ourselves for him. I found, how­ever, that there was no way in the world I could have been pre­pared for the birth experience.

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Laying hold upon every good thing: why we got rid of TV

About 4 months ago we decided to stop watch­ing TV alto­gether. We eval­u­ated the types of «good» pro­grams that were avail­able on the TV, and real­ised that we could get equal or bet­ter qual­ity pro­grams from our own col­lec­tion or from the Inter­net, without being bom­barded with the thick treacle of world­li­ness that oozes from national TV.

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